We sat down with blogger Allison Graham, who is “driven to break the barriers in labels of menswear for women.” She recently traveled to Napa Valley to show her community of followers that you can step outside the norm, stay at amazing places and be safe.
When I first came out, I’d have anxiety attacks. I’m an introvert to say the least. Most times I’d hold my head low, worried (also to avoid altercations) about who would think what of me for being me or so to say GAY. I’d always want to go places but opted not to worry about who I might offend with the choices I’ve made in life. To add salt to the wound, I’m black! A black lesbian that dresses like a man. Now I’ve gotten much pleasure with disrupting “normal lives” with my presence and being me, holding my head high. This is what traveling is to me. Learning the ways of the others but introducing them to who I am as well.
I get very annoyed seeing my community being cliche in their travels because we are scared to step out of the norm. I want to show you guys amazing hotels and places to stay, starting with my first trip to Napa Valley.
I decided I wanted to take a trip to California and instead of visiting more commonly visited cities like Los Angeles and San Francisco, I decided to check out Napa Valley. It’s considered one of the world’s great destinations for great wine and beautiful scenery. I immediately fell in love with Senza Hotel which I discovered on HotelTonight.
Senza Hotel is right in the middle of everything in Napa Valley. The check-in process was quick and I was informed that the hotel has wine tasting every night. Free wine, I’m in! My room was huge with a king size bed, with a beautiful fireplace, soaking tub and large balcony that overlooks the hotel vineyard. I was in heaven. I decided to take it easy my first day and check out the hotel amenities. I spent the rest of the day relaxing in the hotel’s heated pool and took a nice soak in their hot tub. As I was heading back to my room, I decided to check out the free wine tasting. I took a glass of wine back to my room and spent the rest of the night in front of the fireplace.
While I was in Napa I visited Clif Family Winery, owned by the same family that makes Clif Bars. I was feeling slightly tipsy and I already knew I wasn’t going to be able to check-out the next day on time. So I decided to reach out to my HT concierge on my HotelTonight app, asking to have the hotel move my check out to a later time. No problem! My whole experience at Senza was fabulous. The staff made me feel right at home. I was happy, comfortable and pleased by their generosity.



























































































